SUNDAY, JULY 22, 2012
Wk 4 Reading: The Art of Possibility Ch 9-12
As I
start this week's post, I'm hesitant because it is so personal. Let me share my
FaceBook post:
It's an understatement to say that I have carried the small spark that the authors were discussing. Here's the quote:
When
exploring my avenues and exit strategies after my divorce several years ago, I
was avoiding costly litigation to gain custody of my son. My ex-husband had
taken my son, 5 years old, to Oregon - three states away. Although not
that far, 600 miles, it might as well have been in China to me. I had no money,
a costly mortgage, a teenage daughter who had needs and was trying to get
through high school. In addition, I drove an unreliable 1986 Camry and worked
two jobs late into the evening. I was also trying to free-lance websites on the
side and weekends. We had no money to heat the house in those cold
Montana winters. Frequently, my pipes would freeze and we would have no water.
This is when the predators set in. If you've been in this situation, you know
what I'm talking about. You are trying so hard to believe that there is
goodness in the world, yet you are so shattered, that the reality you create is
bleak. I looked at FullSail. I knew on-line education was the only option for
furthering my skills. My ex-husband had his master's degree and was able to
find an excellent job in Oregon. He recovered quickly and within a few weeks,
found a suitable partner and they began building their dream home upon the
banks of the river in Portland. This set heavy toil on me relationship wise. I
felt trapped. I applied to FullSail. They offered me a teacher scholarship, but
it would still be a heavy price to pay. Soon, I will graduate. I am reunited
with my, now 9 year old son and am exploring career options. I'm here to tell
you that I am walking testament of the book Art of Possibility. I look at
things different, invest in myself, can recognize perpetrators, and have a new
gained sense of self and confidence. Although not confident and secure all the
time, I view my experience at FullSail as a launching pad to view the abundance
and see possibility in the world instead of entrapment. I have much work to
do.
1 comment:
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Jena WaytJuly 28, 2012 11:57 AMThis is a very moving post, Kat. Perseverance and walking with possibility have been a key factor in your life. You carry your spark with you at all times like the quote. I can’t imagine how hard this journey must have been for you. You truly are a walking testament to the book The Art of Possibility. I have always been impressed with your work at the Tribal College. From some of the videos you have created, I can see that you are passing on the spark as you open up pathways of possibility to those young adults. You have allowed them to hold on to their rich culture and at the same time learn about new ideas. What a testament to your son that you keep your promises. I know this reunion is long over due. Full Sail University is a launching pad for me also. There is much work still to be completed but - Possibility is everywhere.
